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Negative Coping Resources

 

Listed below are examples of negative coping skills.

Circle those that apply to you.

 

Drugs:

  

Abuse prescribed or street drugs.
Abuse alcohol, coffee, or cigarettes.

 

Eating:

 

Keep binging and/or purging.
Starve yourself.
Use food for consolation.

 

Cutting:

 

Abusing your body by cutting, burning,

Piercing, or other self injury

 

Illness:  

 

Develop headaches, or a major illness.
Become accident prone.

 

Denial:

 

Pretend nothing's wrong.
Lie.

Ignore the problem.
 

Withdrawal:

 

Avoid the situation.
Keep your feelings to yourself.

 

Revenge:

 

Get even.
Be sarcastic.

 

Worrying:

 

Fret over things.
Imagine the worst.

 

Spending:

 

Buy on impulse.
Spend lots of time shopping.

 

Stubbornness:

 

Be rigid. Demand your way.
Refuse to be wrong.

 

Tantrums:

 

Yell. Swear.
Pout. Mope.

 

Faultfinding:

 

Judgmental attitude.
Complain. Criticize.

 

Passivity:

 

Hope it gets better. Procrastinate.
Wait for a lucky break.

 

 

Positive Coping Resources

 

Listed below are positive coping skills.

Circle those that could help you.

 

 

Hobbies:

  

Paint. Write. Remodel.
Create something.

 

Work:

 

Tackle a new project.
Keep busy. Volunteer.

 

Expression:

 

Share feelings.
Express feelings through creative outlets.

 

Assertiveness:

 

State your needs and wants.
Say no respectfully.

 

Networking:

 

Develop friendships with others.
Make use of community resources.

 

Goal Setting:

 

Set clear goals.
Plan for the future.

 

Time Management:

 

Set priorities. Balance leisure and work.
Spend time and energy wisely.

 

Reframing:

 

Change perspectives.
Look for good in a bad situation.

 

Exercise:

 

Pursue physical fitness.
Jog.

Swim.

Dance.

Walk.
 

Self Care:

 

Take care of basic needs.
Shower.

Rest.

Eat healthy.
 

Relaxation:

 

Tense and relax each muscle.
Breathe deeply.

Take a warm bath.
 

Faith:

 

Find purpose and meaning in life.
Meditate quietly.

 

 

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